Thoughts

The thought which started this:

Hi all I viewed a very funny video over youtube and posted the same on my facebook. There was laugh all around on the same. I then searched for uploads by the same person and found a bunch of videos posted by him over the web; all of them are songs recorded by running a karaoke over the desktop and recorded thru a web cam and posted on web. This man is in his late 50's or early 60's. This made me think about why he would do so, may be he has a passion of signing and never found time to vent it out or he is just a lonely man venting his loneliness out.

The thought I have on it:

This is like those moral science stories we read in primary school that somebody fell on the streets and others laugh; without realizing the pain of the person. Actually we have turned out to be the same kind of people our parents once warned us of.

Well but why this happens when we know all this, the same thing is happening with us like the old man in our videos, loneliness is making us insane. The main cause of the same is we have a crust around us. We no more laugh on each other since we are wary of the fact that our friends may get offended. We think by these deceitful approaches we will have everlasting relations. All of us are just trying to be politically correct and have turned into charlatan characters. Why don’t we anymore run into arguments if we think things are not the way we want, why we are afraid of asking questions and most important saying that I don’t know? The problem is we don’t want to question others since we don’t like the same ourselves. We think if I will say I don’t know everybody will feel I am ignorant of the facts.

Please tell me this did we liked all the subjects equally and played all the games with equal amount of enthusiasm in our school days. We are what we wanted to be; somebody loves Hindi movies and somebody rock music. I never liked cricket and know a jack shit about the game, and the same may be the case with a person who never liked tennis. We were never ashamed if we didn’t knew something; either that excited us so we wanted to know that or we were not interested in the same. Now we want to answer every question asked to us may be for that we are on Google for ages.

The probable solution I think of:

My friends’ life is not about finding answers to the questions people ask you it’s about finding the answer to the question you ask yourself. Life is beautiful why we have stopped enjoying it. Guys spend some time chatting about what you like and know what others interests are rather than playing with PSP/PS3 etc. There is no point of doing everything for a result and cause. Spend some time in useless mindless things; same as we have done as a kid; in creating those so called telephones and being happy as we invented something new. There no point developing tastes for Wine just because everybody talks about it. Just be happy about the beer belly you have crafted by investing a fortune in finding the best beer for you. We as it live in isolations, most of us are spending 18 hrs a day out of it and many like me stay alone. We are most of the times with people we have meet in our adulthood and still have inhibitions. So just shed your inhibition and be yourself; thus you will have people around you, who know what really you are. They will know you as you are with your shortfalls, mood swings and trust me will be by your side knowing you as you, not as your Exec. Bio

Loneliness will be there; but you will have people to share the same, and may be we never fall into a situation like our man in the video.